Instead of embracing this truth, Cosby will be labelled a kooky old Uncle Tom who got his fair share and now wants to tell blacks how good it is to be white.
Anytime a black person tries to stand up and speak facts, truth and offer earnest support for their community, they get defensive and started this rhetoric. He was the invited speaker, the invited guest --- a celebrity who made it bigtime coming from very modest roots. Instead of looking to him or other strong black men (I am not talking about athletes) as role models, the community rather dwells on the glorification of murder, music, pimping, drugs, violence and sports. I do blame it on the parents --- It all starts by the parents deciding that this is where they are going to raise their children, this is the path and goals that will ultimately lead their family to stay on welfare, live in poverty in the projects and give up on their children. Either because they are too lazy, too incompetent or perhaps too complacent to look for work as they earn a free government paycheck once a month.
Everything I have done in my life has been 1st generation. Nothing was ever given to me as a child, teenager nor adult. I worked my way through college on sports & academic scholarships. I applied myself (like any decent student and athlete could have done) and then I landed back and made some critical decisions that led me to having a young wife and a new young daughter on the way. Went from the glory of it all to earning $6/hr and driving to work with little pride in my $400 car. Driving through the burger place twice because we found more change on the floorboard in order to get 2 hamburgers that night in lieu of one. I have been in poverty, but I promised myself, my family and my child that I would make them a better life. It is nothing about being black or white --- it is about being accountable for your decisions, taking responsibility for your actions and ultimately doing whatever it takes to make something work. It took years to get to a place where we felt a little more comfortable and believe me this was very difficult. I went from a professional sports contract to scraping by trying to cope with the reality of the day.
When we finally moved out here to Hammond and I could honestly afford my own home, we could afford much else --- including a refrigerator. We lived out of an ice chest for several months. The first and only gift from my parents was to pay for the refrigerator and then I would pay them back (which I did in full)
It is not about where you are from, nor what you have been through --- ultimately it is mostly about the character of the person and their individual drive that will led to success. Nothing mystical nor colored about it. Black, white, green, red, pink or purple --- opportunity is out there and with the systems the where they are, I firmly believe that minorities have distinct advantages and opportunities.
Regards,
Andy